Forgiveness is one of the hardest things a Christian can do—especially when the other person never says “sorry.” Many people carry pain for years because they’re waiting for an apology that may never come.
But here’s the truth: God calls us to forgive for our own healing, not because the other person deserves it. That kind of radical forgiveness is what sets believers apart—and it starts in the heart, not with the other person’s apology.
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- Why Forgiveness Is So Hard* The hurt feels unfair and unresolved.
- * The offender may act like nothing happened.
- * You feel like forgiving means they “got away with it.
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What the Bible Says
Ephesians 4:31–32 (NIV)
Jesus didn’t wait for us to say “sorry” before dying for our sins. He forgave first.That’s the example we’re called to follow.
Matthew 6:14–15 (NIV)
Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”
Colossians 3:13 – “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
This is tough, but Jesus said:
Matthew 5:44 – “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
It doesn’t mean you trust them again, but it releases them from your judgment and invites God’s healing.
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Have you found yourself in this situation? How did you manage it?“Have you ever forgiven someone who never said sorry? What helped you do it—or what’s still holding you back?”
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Rely on Jesus
Forgiving someone who never apologizes is one of the most Christ-like things you can do. It breaks cycles of pain and brings you freedom—even when the wound is still healing. You don’t need their apology to let go.
